summa summa summa time

Life after my study abroad has been wonderful! I spent under a week at home in April, and then my father and I successfully completed the long, long, long drive from Michigan to Utah. All that was on my mind was my sweet reunion with the broski! Let me just say that I love my brother and love the relationship that we have. So many people have asked me what the secret is to the closeness that my brother and I have, hoping that their kids will end up being close as well. And in all honesty, I don't know. My father and I had a discussion the other night about it, and we decided it comes down to a mutual respect we have for one another. Although I have 2 1/2 years younger than Jonathan, he still comes for me with advice, ESPECIALLY relationship advice as he has become a serial dater. And only my brother knows my deepest secrets and gives me wise, rational advice on how to manage my crazy life. I really love my brother, and the rest of my family. With my cousin Lucia getting married this Saturday, July 2nd, family has been coming into town for the last week. My mom arrived this morning, and today at lunch the four of us sat down together and realized it's the first time we've been together since January 2009! I can't believe that much time has passed since we have spent quality time together. We are all looking forward to time at home in August, and then our first Christmas together this December.


I was also hired as a customer service representative for BYU Independent Study the first week of May. I just want to take a moment to advertise what I think is an excellent program. BYU Independent Study has about 130,000 university and high school students enrolled in courses throughout the WORLD. Many of these students have no ties to BYU or the LDS church, but choose our program because of it's reputation, varity, and accessability. I essentially spend 5 hours Monday-Friday assisting students and parents in any questions they may have regarding their courses. I love my job because I enjoy helping people, it is not demanding, I have great co-workers and bosses, and I have a large amount of down time where I am able to get homework, reading, or blogging done with ease. Last, but definitely not least, the office has recently adopted a great, new hobby: CROQUET.

Yes, this wonderful athletic event has become a new hobby of mine. One of my co-workers brought in a croquet set for an office tournament, and we also play on our short breaks when it gets sllooowww. Croquet is such an easy going game, one would think my competitive side would be avoided. This is not the case. I love winning. I also love sabotaging others' victories. It is a quality I may or may not have picked up from my brother. And now we have come full circle.

time of my life!

Not having internet at my apartment poses a problem for keeping up with the blogging in addition to the fact that I am just not really good at it. My adventures up to this point have included:
Dream weekend in Paris, France. Toured the Louvre, Eiffel Tower, Sacre Couer, Notre Dame, Musee d'Orsay, Arc d'Triomph, and Catacombs. I have never tasted greater food in my life (besides my mother's cooking...or Cafe Rio's smothered pork burritos...) I had three crepes in three days and it just wasn't enough. It was a truly incredible weekend.
The group traveled to Sevilla and Granada, another dream weekend. The weather was beautiful and we could finally lose the jackets and enjoy the sun. We rented bikes and toured Sevilla laughing hysterically the entire time.
This past weekend we also traveled to Toledo which was a really convenient, fun trip.
MOST IMPORTANTLY, Kip discovered a "secret show" put on by myspace and vodafone for Neon Trees in Madrid. Neon Trees is a band from Provo, so naturally the group was really excited to go. We showed up early enough to get front row at a venue right by Sol called Joy. Tyler, the lead singer, was serenading me the entire time, and during the 2nd song he got down on a knee at just the right angle that I could successfully slip my BYU ID into his front pocket. He sang the rest of the songs with that bad boy securely in the pocket. Every time he came close to me I jumped up and pushed it down a little bit to ensure it wouldn't fall out on the stage. I am still anxiously waiting for some facebook contact.
On another note, Abby and I are also pleased to announce that our favorite cereal, Aros Integrales, has resurfaced in the cupboard. Arroz con leche every night and Aros Integrales every morning...we are spoiled!

On Wednesday we will be traveling to the Canary Islands, next Wednesday to Bilbao, and the next to Barcelona. We will only have class Monday and Tuesday for the next three weeks. Ughhhh!! So hard!!!!!!

Needless to say, my life is just too good right now.

Week Two: Travel

On January 21^st, our group took its first trip together to Segovia, Spain. We loaded onto a small tour bus and, with our guide Antonio, drove about two hours until we reached our final destination. I knew virtually nothing about what we were about to see, nor how incredible it would be, and was overjoyed to learn of how beautiful Segovia is and what we were able to see. Our first stop was the Segovia aqueduct. I honestly never thought an aqueduct would interest me, but the structure was absolutely incredible. The town was quaint and at one point came to a large open space that met the gigantic aqueduct. The weather, although beyond freezing, was beautiful as the skies were perfectly blue, and the contrast of the sun and the blue sky on the centuries-old structure was amazing. We went on to see the Catedral de Segovia and also the Alcazar Castle. The group climbed the tower of the castle and came out on top of the roof for a beautiful view. We learned of the history of the kings and queens and saw how they lived. The cathedral was also so beautiful and ornate, and the ceilings were soaring. Naturally, I was secretly identifying various elements of the cathedral that made it gothic, like the pointed arches, stained glass windows, groin vaults, etc that I have learned in my days of studying Humanities. What makes these structures so incredible is the amount of history that they have and the fact that they are so architecturally profound. I have lived here for just two weeks and have been able to see beautiful structures in El Escorial and Segovia, visit museums such as the Prado where I saw Las Meninas, The 3^rd of May, and Garden of Earthly Delights, and take a stroll through Retiro Park. There is so much to do here and I am lucky to have about nine more weeks here in Spain to soak it up. On another note, Abby and I have discovered a new favorite of ours: ARROZ CON LECHE. Each time Andrea feeds us this incredible dessert, we literally dance with joy. It is essentially whole pieces of cooked rice in milk (yes, the kind that we drink that isn’t always refrigerated and expires months later) with cinnamon. Much more appetizing than it sounds. AND one more thing, my brother NEXT WEEK! Heaven!

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Week One: Adjust.

Before I begin, I want to emphasize that adjusting does not mean adjusting in a bad way, rather getting used to a situation that is different than what you're used to. Where to begin...

Abby and I met our host mother the first day of the trip in Plaza Cervantes in our little town called Alcala de Henares (the last a has an accent but I can't copy and paste it without it looking weird.) Her name is Andrea and she is 77 years old. She lives in an apartment on Calle de Ferraz that is small but charming. This was the first adjustment: our apartment is probably 600 square feet, maybe less, and it does not have internet. Coming to Spain without my beloved cell phone was enough, but take away internet access before bed and I am definitely out of my element. At first this was a shocking realization, but Abby and I are both grateful for it now. We have found a cafe called Rodilla that has free wifi and come here occasionally to send emails and upload pictures. With all the free time on my hands from not being on facebook, I have already been able to finish a book called Water for Elephants that I HIGHLY recommend reading before the movie comes out.

Only having one cell phone between Abby and I posed a large problem initially. Here we are with this cell phone that is arguably worse than the first cell phone I received with zero contacts in it and no way of accessing my email to look up the phone numbers of other members in our group. Luckily, on the second day we ran into a couple people from our group who were on their way to Madrid. They showed us where to pick up our bus/train passes and then we were off to Madrid. From Alcala, you first take a train to Atocha where you switch to the metro to Sol that takes you right in the middle of Plaza Mayor in Madrid. It is an incredible sight. I've since been back two other times and it's always equally exciting!

The food schedule is very precise here. Every morning we wake up and have breakfast, cereal, mini muffins, and fruit. Lunch is the biggest meal and is at two. We've had everything from pasta to fried lunch meat and cheese. It's always a little bit scary to look out from our bedroom to the table and see what Andrea has prepared, but we are grateful that she is so sweet and diligent with her responsibilities as host mother. She doesn't miss a beat-she adjusts to our schedule and takes it upon herself to be there for us when we need her.

The most fun I've had so far was yesterday when Abby, her father and I went to El Escorial to a historical palace! The weather was beautiful and there was so much to see and hear about. It made us really excited for the weekend trips that we are going to take with the group to tour all of the beautiful cities in Spain. Also, we went out to Media Pinta, a bar in Alcala, with our good friend Sofia (Andrea's granddaughter who is our age) to watch the Athletico Madrid vs. Real Madrid game. I LOVE being in a place where everyone loves and looks foward to watching a good game. Abby and I are looking forward to going to a game in the near future!

Next week is our first full week of classes and first trip as a group. Segovia here we come!

home for the holidays

how time is flying. after being at school for a year and a half now, i have gotten into a general routine of when i come home to visit: april, august, and december for the holidays. this trip home came incredibly fast because of a fall 2010 semester that just flew by. this was the first opportunity i had to go home for three full weeks, the longest i've been home since i moved out of the house last august. the highlights of my trip, as always, include seeing friends and family, spending quality time at home, christmas with the missionaries, and at least 100 hours of glorious sleep in my full bed.

whenever i come home, there are a few situations that drive me crazy. the first is the fact that i have this idea in my head every single time that i am going to get to spend time with all of my friends from high school. i fail to forget all of the reasons why it is a surety that i will not see half the people i planned on seeing. when i first moved, since i was the only one to go far, far, away, my arrival home was always anticipated by my friends. with each semester, people feel the excitement less and less because this is life now. i live in utah and i do not visit home very often. another issue is the adjustment of going from car to no car. although my parents are generous whenever they can be, i find myself with days like this where i am alone for hours on end with nothing to entertain me but leah, my dog.

oh yeah, and fantasizing about my trip to europe (which commences in just two days.)
i just want to share my incredible travel plans:
January 10th-ARRIVE
January 21st-Segovia
January 28th-Salamanca
February 3rd-Paris
February 9th-Sevilla, Granada, Cordoba
February 18th-Toledo
February 23rd-Canary Islands!!
March 2nd-Bilbao, Burgos
March 9th-Barcelona
March 19th-Valencia for Las Fallas Festival

please follow my blog and also http://byumadrid.blogspot.com/ to keep up with the adventure!
...and my brother gets home from his mission in chile in just 26 days!!!

Voy a MADRID!

My experiences as a student at BYU for Fall 2010 have been drastically different from my Spring and Summer term. I came back to BYU at the end of August after two relaxing weeks at home, and I was feeling really hopeful about the semester, my new roommates, and having all of my friends back. It quickly became clear that the semester was going to be fantastic! Two of my closest friends, Abby and Londyn, were back from California (Bay Area) and Denver, CO respectively, and it has been so good to be around such happy, fun people. Additionally, my roommates are wonderful! I live with Whitney, Courtney, and Chelsea. Chelsea's been my roommate and great friend since my first apartment last January, and it has just been a pleasure living with people that are nice and easy to get along with.

The most exciting piece of news that I have to share, which is old news to most people seeing as I have told just about everyone on earth, is that I was accepted to the Madrid Study Abroad program for Winter 2011! Yes, two months from now I will be LIVING IN SPAIN! Even better news, Abby applied to the program just a few days before the application closed and was also accepted into the program. This was a huge relief for me as the students attending this study abroad live with host families in pairs, and I had absolutely no idea who I would be paired with, if we would get along, etc. So naturally this brought a lot of relief and happiness to the situation and allowed me to feel much more at ease as I anticipate next semester in Europe.

In Madrid, me, Abby, and 28 other students will be studying at the, and we have the option to choose between a variety of classes including Spanish, History of the Church in Spain, Photography, and an optional research class where I am going to study the history of art and architecture in Spain. On top of that, we will be traveling as a group every other weekend all around Spain. Wait, it gets better. On top of that, we have the option to travel in Spain, to France, or to Portugal during the weekends we are not traveling as a group. Not to mention most of the group, including myself, is going to stay in Europe for a couple of weeks following the classes, which run from January 12th to March 31st, to travel. What a dream! I am so excited for this opportunity and so grateful to my parents for their love and support.

There is still so much that needs to be planned as far as travel goes. Abby and I have tried making a list of places in Europe that we are dying to see, and next on the list is to solidify these plans and start packing!

And one more thing, I love my missionaries! Jonathan will be home in less than three months, and although I will be in Spain, I cannot think of a happier moment than seeing my big broski.

Fresh Start

Well, clearly it has been quite a long time since I’ve blogged. Blogging, I’ve realized, is difficult because once you begin, you’re expected to steadily maintain your site. This can be difficult if you lack the time and inspiration to write or are picky about the subject you decide to blog about, like me. Nothing out of the ordinary has occurred lately. This summer I chose to remain in Provo to take classes and work, and the majority of my time was spent doing those two things and struggling. Looking back on it now, I realize that a lot of the time I spent struggling could have been avoided. When you are placed in a situation that is less than desirable (to put it lightly), you are able to learn things about yourself that need improvement. This learning is, unfortunately, a lifelong process. The first time I was uncomfortable at school I wanted someone to tell me exactly what I need to do to feel better. I wanted a clear diagnosis of what my issues were. I did not want to hear “you’ll feel better if you stop thinking about yourself and start thinking about others” or “you’ll feel better if you get a job and be productive.” Finally, after a year of living in Utah on my own, I’ve come to realize that there really is no solution to the problems of life. Problems, trials, obstacles, etc. will always come, and the only thing you can control is how YOU handle them.
Without getting into much detail, my living situation this spring and summer term at school was just not fair. When I first moved in, I tried to be optimistic about everything. I noticed little things that I didn’t feel were right but decided that rather than confronting the problem, I would over compensate for a lack of courtesy by killing with kindness. I did not address any problems initially, and the situation got worse and worse, literally draining my roommates and I of energy to even fight anymore. By the end of the summer as the time was approaching for me to go home, I was EXHAUSTED. Tired of being lied to and trying to defend myself, tired of being accused unfairly, tired of taking hits for someone else’s lack of honesty. I had a very difficult time moving on from the situation as I didn’t feel it was resolved properly. I wish I could give more detail, but I am trying to go forth with a forgive and forget attitude. As mentioned before, one of the things I have learned is that I am only in control of myself. Instead of blaming another person, I decided to look back on the situation and determine what I could have done better to avoid it. One of the things I took from this experience was that communication is a major, MAJOR key to a happy relationship and friendship. If issues arise, it is absolutely crucial that one communicates with another and compromise is made. I avoided confrontation and this created a lot of internal negativity that eventually was really draining for me. I also had my first real taste of the difficulty of forgiveness. I absolutely did not want to forgive in this situation, but realized that the only person this was hurting was myself. Forgiving allowed me to let go of the emotions I had tied to this summer and MOVE ON!
Now, what am I moving on to? Another sweet semester at Brigham Young University. In just a few days I will be moving in to a new apartment with new roommates and new ward and starting class once again. I have my all-sports pass ready to go and can’t wait for another football season! I have an interview on September 8th to determine whether or not I will be leaving this January to study abroad in MADRID! And to top it off, my brother will be home in just FIVE months!! I have a lot of things to be grateful for and now I will shift my focus to those things. More to come soon☺!